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Death 

You know what gets me? How so called family and friends gather around and show their “support” when someone has passed away. Whether untimely or expectedly. 

But where were you when that person needed your help? When you could have made their last moments on this earth a little bit better? When you could have eased their sufferings by giving them your time, an ear to listen, a shoulder to lean on? 

Is the money you’re giving their family to ease the guilt you feel or…?

I’ve never understood when people say “I’m sorry for your loss”. Why? It wasn’t your fault, what are you apologising for? 

Maybe I am being biased and seeing things from one perspective and would welcome the opportunity to be educated on this but until then…